To me Madhu Sir, was more than a Professor
and Guide. He is my counsellor, my mentor.. With his gentle manner and
warm smile he would always infuse that confidence – “yes you can”. He
taught us Counselling as a subject. It was not just subject and theory that we
learnt. His presence, voice, gentle look, intonation and common sense bowled
every student in the class. As a class we often thought if we could just get a
little more of him our purpose of joining Counselling would be fulfilled. He
was truly inspiring.
Whenever I come across a
challenging case, I often ponder “how would have Sir dealt with it”
I get the clarity and ease to deal the case. Simplicity and brevity were
his forte. There would be no preaching and sermons about do and don’ts.
No lengthy ranting. He had a way to make clients introspect and take the
onus to handle their problems.
There were several
times I turned to him for courage and support. He never said - NO. He was
always there. I’m blessed that he was there to see me through the tough phases
of my student period, averting the obstacles that could have otherwise left me
dejected. It is to him that I am grateful for successful completion of higher
education and also I owe my success in Profession to him.
With his avuncular charm
he gave me a sense of being a part of an extended family. Truly, he was a man
of character. He never spoke ill of anyone. As every research student is aware
there are MENTORS and TORMENTORS in our student period. While both help
you to gain your academic heights only mentors do it without breaking YOU.
Thankyou sir! for bringing in that smile when I was sad. He infused in me
the confidence that only a mentor could give with his encouragement. Walking
out of his chamber, I loved that sense of EMPOWERMENT.
I should say I am indebted to my father
for living, but to my teacher for living well.
N. Sucharita
Counsellor/Psychologist
Roshni Counselling Centre,
Hyderabad
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